ladies: you can’t fix a toxic man. if he’s manipulative and rude and abusive at the beginning of a relationship, he’s going to continue being that way until it resonates with him that what he’s doing is wrong. no matter how many times you tell him, you can’t make him realize it. forgiving him and giving him chances even after he’s treated you terribly is encouraging him to keep doing it because he isn’t being punished for it. if someone is bad, they will stay bad until they choose not to be.
Yes, we have seen the news! We are planning to have the
site back up either tomorrow or Wednesday; we just have a couple last
security measures we want to put in place today, but we will be working on
it as quickly as possible and we will have a clearer ETA by tonight.
We will also try to come up with a way to lower the barrier to entry for new users, though we don’t want to drop the entry fee entirely because a) we feel that would be unfair to our users who have paid for their registration keys and b) we don’t think our servers could handle a massive influx of new users right now, so we’re going to try to allow as many new users as we can without capsizing the boat. We appreciate your patience and will have more details soon!
